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Cultivating Clarity: Creating Professional C.H.I.

by Barbara Reid

CULTIVATING C.H.I. was born out of a desire to create flow and ease throughout the main areas of our lives.  We often become stuck when dealing with issues connected with our PHYSICAL bodies, our SPIRITUAL beings, our relationships, and our PROFESSIONAL lives.  Our goal is to develop CLARITY in our thoughts, words, and actions.  To prioritize what is important to us and to bring these priorities into CONGRUENCY and HARMONY aligned with our INTEGRITY.

Why is this important?

We become conflicted when we act out of alignment with what we know to be true.  This conflict shows up in overeating, cravings, abuse of caffeine, food, drugs,  alcohol,  insomnia, anxiety, depression, and other PHYSICAL, SPIRITUAL, and emotional consequences.

How do we develop CLARITY?
We develop CLARITY by assessing the imbalances we may be feeling in our body, our spirit, our relationships, or our PROFESSION and we recognize the old limiting beliefs that may be holding us back.  Once we begin to challenge these critical voices we are ready to take the 7 Steps to Gain CLARITY and Create C.H.I. in Our Lives.

What is the goal of gaining CLARITY?
Our goal is to bring our thoughts, words, and actions into CONGRUENCY, HARMONY, and INTEGRITY.

CONGRUENCY is being in a state of agreement.  Our actions support what we want to achieve.

What is HARMONY?
HARMONY is a state of peace, cooperation, tranquility, and unity.  We decide what is important to us and we allocate our time, effort, and energy based on these priorities.

INTEGRITY is when our actions are consistent with our knowledge of right and wrong.

Today we’re going to talk more about CULTIVATING CLARITY: CREATING PROFESSIONAL C.H.I.

“A career is not just about earning an income.  It is about pursuing the essence of your life.”
-Terry Mante

It is rare for a person to spend their entire PROFESSIONAL life in one occupation or with one company.  People often try many different jobs before finding their special niche.  Unfortunately some spend years in unfulfilling positions or moving from job to job because nothing seems to fit.  Sometimes our priorities change and we need to shift  to align our PROFESSION with those changes in our values.

PROFESSIONAL C.H.I. is created by choosing a career that is CONGRUENT or in agreement with our life goals, HARMONIOUS with our priorities, and in line with our INTEGRITY or values.

“Don’t ask what the world needs.  Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it.  Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.
-Howard Thurman

Why is PROFESSIONAL C.H.I. important?
We spend an average of 8.9 hours working per day.  When we are doing a job that is unfulfilling, incongruent with our goals, out of alignment with our values, or draining our peace and energy we will find ourselves subject to the same problems that occur when we are out of PHYSICAL or SPIRITUAL C.H.I.
What are the consequences of living out of PROFESSIONAL C.H.I.?
We may experience…
*abuse of caffeine, food, drugs, or alcohol
*hormonal imbalances
If we are not satisfied with our work life,  we can fall into a pattern of compare and despair.

“Everyone is a genius.  But if you judge a fish on it’s ability to climb a tree, it will live it’s whole life believing that it is stupid.”
-Albert Einstein

We hold up what we are doing against the work or accomplishments of someone else and feel “less than”.
When we feel  “less  than”  we lose our energy.  Remember, where our attention goes our energy flows.  If we dwell in feelings of failure, we will fail.

“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.  The only way to do great work is to love what you do.”
-Steve Jobs

What can we do if we are living out of PROFESSIONAL C.H.I.?
We either stay in our current status but make changes or we pursue our dream job.
Sometimes it isn’t feasible to make a career change at the current moment.  If you need to stay in a job that is not your ideal,  make small incremental shifts to more fully align with your C.H.I.
Such as:
*Don’t speak negatively about your work.
*Get plenty of sleep.
*Express gratitude.
“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
-C.S. Lewis

“Never let the odds keep you from doing what you know in your heart you were meant to do.”

How do we pursue our dream job?
*Set your priorities.
*Diligently pray.
*Set your intentions.
*Get credentials.
*Explore what you enjoy.
*Discover your strengths.

“If you want to achieve greatness stop asking for permission.”

How do you know if it’s time for a PROFESSIONAL change?
Are you experiencing any of the following?
*Frequent physical illness.
*Low energy.
*Out of alignment with values.
*Feel devalued.
*Lack of incentive.

“When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin.  It works not because it settles the questions for you but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.”

How do we know that we are where we should be  at this moment in time?
*don’t expect perfection.
*feel energized.
*feel excited.
*feel challenged.
*feel creative.
*receive incentives.
*feel appreciated.

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.”
-George Eliot

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.”

Strategy:  To align our thoughts, words, and actions to create PROFESSIONAL C.H.I.
Thought:  I dread going to work every day.
Feeling:   I feel dread going to work every day.  I am going to get curious and explore ways to relax and find peace and fulfillment in my work.
Behavior:  I dread going to work every day because I am not excited or challenged by my work.  I will take small steps to improve my attitude by managing my expectations.  I will speak positively about my work to myself and to others.  I will not participate in office gossip.  I will ask for and accept challenges.  I will explore ways to take on more fulfilling responsibilities.
What are the consequences of living outside of our PROFESSIONAL INTEGRITY?
When we don’t make shifts in how we perceive our current PROFESSION or make a change to pursue our dream job,  we often experience deep regret.  This regret can show up as anger, depression, anxiety, sadness, and overwhelm.

“Ask yourself, will I regret it my whole life if I don’t do it.?”

What are the rewards of living within our PROFESSIONAL INTEGRITY?
The rewards of living within our INTEGRITY include fulfillment, joy, peace, and expansive energy.

“Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life.”

You may be asking yourself…Now what?  I would love to implement these recommendations but I really want or need some help.

If this is you, you can contact me for a complimentary 15 minute Cultivating Clarity Session.  Email me at barbara@cultivateholistichealth.com or call (904) 502-8936 and leave a message.

You may be asking yourself…Now what? I would love to implement these recommendations but I really want or need some help.

If this is you, you can contact me for a complimentary 15 minute Cultivating Clarity Session. Here’s how…

Click here to Contact Barbara Reid  today.

Barbaras-Website-photo_0 Barbara Reid, Certified Integrative Health Coach

Meet Perfectly Imperfect Me

I humbly stand before you in all my imperfection…writing, speaking, sharing, and coaching.  Not trying to have all the answers.  Not thinking that I am a perfect example. Rather opening my heart to say…I will walk beside you and guide you with compassion.  I will be fully present when we speak.  I will not judge you.  I will pray for you and your concerns.  I will tell you when I do not know and explore options with you.

What are your concerns?  Are you struggling with stress?  Do you feel stuck in your life?  Are you properly nourishing your body, mind, and spirit?  Is your relationship with food challenging?  Are you burdened with an unreasonable inner critic?  Are you preoccupied with your body image?  Are you confused with all the conflicting information out there?  Are you overwhelmed with the business of “busy-ness”?  As a Life and Integrative Health Coach I practice a holistic approach to these concerns.

I received my training from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, where I studied a multitude of dietary theories and  a variety of practical lifestyle coaching methods. Some of my most memorable instructors included Dr. Mark Hyman, Dr. Andrew Weil, Dr. Deepak Chopra, Geneen Roth, and Marilena Minucci.  Drawing on this knowledge, I will help you create a completely personalized “roadmap to health” that suits your unique body, lifestyle, preferences, and goals.

In addition, I am a certified teacher, certified Master Gardener, experienced weight loss consultant, dedicated yogi, and fitness buff.

Are you ready to explore and get curious?  Let’s chat.

Barbara’s Website: cultivateholistichealth.com/